As a man I denounce this johnny come lately buzz phrase, crutch , excuse that narcissistic, misogynistic, male members of society offer up as a progressive moral defense for violating, stealing, robbing and raping other members of society. The issue isn’t debatable, worthy of discussion because its vile, wrong, and vastly becoming a judicial defense for men that take uninvited and criminal liberties with women.
“They’d now decided — mutually, she thought — just to be friends. When he ended up falling asleep on her bed, she changed into pajamas and climbed in next to him. Soon, he was putting his arm around her and taking off her clothes. ‘I basically said, “No, I don’t want to have sex with you.” And then he said, “OK, that’s fine” and stopped. . . . And then he started again a few minutes later, taking off my panties, taking off his boxers. I just kind of laid there and didn’t do anything — I had already said no. I was just tired and wanted to go to bed. I let him finish. I pulled my panties back on and went to sleep.’”