I’m no woman but I imagine it has to be aggravating as a boil in the ass to get yelled at and catcalled like you’re some stray animal when you walk down the street.
Everyday all over the country thousands of women that simply want to make their way someplace are harassed by mindless and spineless fools in verbal and sometimes physical context.
The harassment has grown so exponentially it has spawned many movements whose sole agenda is to stamp it out.
This is the way you show a woman you like her? Really?
“Hey Ms. big ass! Bring that ass over here and let me holla at it.”
“You one sexy bitch”. (If you don’t know a dog from a woman you don’t have any business with either one in your life).
“Hey ! Hey! Hey you!” She has a name – a name you’ll never know if you keep calling her “you”.
“Hey gurl I sho wouldn’t mind suckin on dem titties.” And she wouldn’t mind you returning to English 101 and learning the language you’re butchering when you open your mouth. If you’re butchering words there is no telling what you’ll do to her breasts. FAIL!
These fools will even grab a woman or worse if she attempts to ignore this foolishness. I’m going to warn ya’ll some of these women are sick of this shit and some of them have what is known on the streets as their “conceals”. That’s a legal right to carry gun somewhere you can’t see it. Y’all are going to catcall the wrong woman one day and get a hot one up YOUR ass.
But it shouldn’t have to come to that. There is something we as men can do to curtail this mistreatment and harassment of women.
We can start by leading by example for the boys of the nation. We can treat these boy’s Mothers, Sisters, Aunts, and Grandmothers with respect.
Promote chivalry.The offer and acceptance of chivalry in no way diminishes feminine equality or challenges the independence of women.
The offer and acceptance of chivalry in no way diminishes feminine equality or challenges the independence of women.
Whether you’re in a relationship with women or not, we have to take the lead in showing our boys that women and girls are precious and priceless and worth way more that a physical attribute.
We too have to sway a shift in mindset away from this aggressive disrespectful attitude toward women and girls to one that fosters a charming approach. Some of ya’ll are out here scaring the shit out of women when you should be charming them.
I said charm – I did not say lie . Don’t get it twisted.
If you need a primer on how to be bulls eye accurate charmer view the video below.
The author may sound like he’s suggesting manipulation. It’s only manipulation if you’re lying to someone for some hidden agenda you’re pushing. I don’t suggest you lie to any woman under any circumstances. Otherwise – enjoy the video.
I’m proposing a kinder, more respectful, and gentler approach toward women we want to meet because what’s going on now is not the way.
For the assholes that can’t tell women from dogs and are fixated on fucking donkeys (look up donkey – if you don’t know now you know), don’t say shit to any woman I’m related to or know – I’m going to defend her honor. And make no mistake about they are all honorable.
Charm, Respect, and Chivalry. I think I’m on to something.
“Talk to a lady about herself and she’ll listen for hours”.