Here’s the scenario: You’re at the club or the bar with your girlfriends. You spot a cute guy across the room hanging out with his buddies.“Wow!” you think. “I’d really like to talk to him.”You tell your girlfriends and they convince you to go up to him and start a conversation.
You are so nervous.
“What if he rejects me?” “What should I say?” “I don’t want to look stupid.”
You take a deep breath and proceed to walk over to him. Your heart is beating so fast.“Calm down” you tell yourself. “It’s just a guy. He’s a human being. Relax.”
You tap him on the shoulder and he turns around.
“Hi!” you say, with a smile on your face.
He takes one look at you, rolls his eyes, and says “No!”
He turns back around to his friends and you’re left standing there feeling like a complete idiot.
You do the walk of shame back to your girlfriends who are eagerly awaiting your return.
“What happened?” they ask.
“He was so rude! What a jerk!”
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