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Buki from Chicago, Ill Asks:
“Memorial weekend, my bf and I went to my girlfriend’s cookout. She has it every year but since he’s newly minted, this was his first time. This was also our first time at a group thing.
We’ve been pretty wrapped up in each other for the past few months but I was excited to take him and show him off basically.
Then we get there, after having to practically drag him, as if I hadn’t told him about it repeatedly over the last couple weeks, and he EMBARRASSES me.
He went from not even WANTING to go to FLIRTING with EVERY BITCH there. One chick especially, who I don’t fuck with, was all over him and he seemed to encourage it. We had it out in the car on the way home and he said I should’ve just pulled him away if I had such a problem. BUT he won’t even cop to the disrespect. My best friend thinks his behavior is a MAJOR red flag. So what should I do Ms. Agatha? Should I just cut my losses?”
See Agatha’s advice @ Ask Agatha: Reckless Flirting, Fronting On Black Twitter, And Wiping While Sitting » VSB